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7 Tips For Nailing Ur LUS (Love Ur Self)

7 Tips For Nailing Ur LUS (Love Ur Self)

So…you've finally joined the LUS (Love Ur Self) Fam! You've read the reviews, you've seen the videos, but for whatever reason, you can't seem to nail your application…YET! We promise there's light at the end of the tunnel.

As you may know, our formulas are pretty different (they're water-activated!) and for some people there can be a bit of a learning curve. But once you nail it, there’s no going back. 🙅🏽

So to help you shorten the learning curve and get you to the "Omaaagaaaawd I LOVE my curls!" stage faster, we're sharing with you our best tips for falling in love with your curls using LUS (Love Ur Self).

1. Take Your Time with Step One

If you’re giving your head a super quick lather and rinse before moving on to the next step, you’re likely not getting the most out of our sulfate-free shampoo.

As with any sulfate-free shampoo, you need to WERK to break up oil and dirt at the roots. Reason being that normal shampoos (the ones that contain sulfates) are full of harmful, drying agents that foam and strip the hair.

Since we did away with those, you’ll need to give your entire scalp a solid massage to get your roots nice and clean.

Check out this video from @craft_and_mane showing off her full wash day routine.

She does an awesome job of explaining how it’s done here.

2. Rinse out Step Two

Raise your hand if you’ve ever finished your shampoo and conditioner at the same time?

(Ha! We didn’t think so.)

It’s no secret that curly girls can go through a lot of conditioner, and we’re not knocking you for that. Conditioned curls retain more moisture, more moisture means less frizz, and less frizz equals more definition.

However, as curly girls ourselves, we didn’t want our customers to have to use TONS of conditioner to get the uber-hydrated curls they desire.

Like the other two steps in our line, our conditioner is also activated by water and requires a lot less product than you think. It’s a concentrated formula that’ll still give you all the detangling and slip you desire, without requiring boatloads of product to do so. Less product = even better results (at ALL stages of the LUS (Love Ur Self) application!)

It’s also important to know that the LUS (Love Ur Self) conditioner should not be used as a leave-in conditioner.

While it’s full of amazing hydrating ingredients, the formula was designed to do all its work in the shower; when you choose not to rinse it out, you risk clogging your hair follicle and dulling your shine.

Bonus Tip: Rinse out your conditioner with cool water to close up the hair follicle and seal in moisture.

3. Detangle in the shower

We strongly advise doing all of your dirty detangling work IN the shower! Why? You’ll handle your curls less as they dry, reducing frizz and preserving all of your glorious definition.

Many of our curlies actually find it easiest to detangle after letting their conditioner sit for 3-5 minutes. You can see our founder demo this here.

Add a bit of water (try sticking your whole head under the running water for 1–2 secs) and then slowly detangle using your fingers or curl-appropriate comb, a bit more water, a bit more detangling, until ahhh—you’ve got a silky smooth, tangle-free mane.

4. Less Product, More Water

Our All-in-Ones are activated by.... you guessed it, water! So, you’ll want to apply them to soaking wet hair. Since lots of us aren’t accustomed to working with more H2O than product, many curlies go overboard with our products their first time around. Even though it may be scary, try a lighter hand with your All-in-One and be generous with the amount of water you use. Keep in mind that this may change depending on your curl type and porosity level.

Someone with 2A curls, for example, will have hair that easily retains moisture so adding water after applying your All-in-One might not be necessary. Someone with 4B curls, however, may need to use a spray bottle to add water throughout their application process.

You’ll know you’ve used the right product-to-water ratio when you can easily start to rake your fingers through your hair without a ton of excess product coming off in your hands.

The application really is the key to a great finish (our founder even went LIVE to show that here), so take your time to really work in the product. Not only will you experience better results, but you will also find that you can last longer between washing and styling your hair. And having to rewash and restyle your hair less often results in less maneuvering of your curls, and less breakage. Welcome to curly hair simplified!

5. Allow your curls to set

We know how tempting it can be to play with those soft, luscious curls. But don’t do it! Not until they’re 100% dry, anyway. It’ll cause all the work you spent clumping your curls to be in vain! And while we don’t mind a little frizz, we know that some curly girls prefer lotsa definition.

That being said, if you choose to dry/diffuse your hair, use a warm or cool setting and be gentle with the blow dryer! Try placing your hand behind your hair as you dry to keep it from blowing around too much. Check out how @myfrecklesandcurls does it here.

Another tip is to start the dryer only AFTER placing the diffuser in your hair instead of starting it beforehand and then bringing it up to your hair, causing your curls to blow around. Once your curls are dried and set you can get back to flipping and whipping them back and forth.

6. Embrace your curls

If you didn’t know, LUS (Love Ur Self) stands for Love Ur Self. Our mission has always been to help our customers love themselves from head to toe, inside and out. That being said, our formulas were not designed to change the hair’s naturally occurring texture or wave/curl pattern. That means LUS (Love Ur Self) won’t stretch your curls or make them any curlier than they naturally are—it will simply enhance the beautiful hair that you already have.

Yes, we’ve had some customers experience their hair being curlier than ever. But that’s because the true curl pattern that was always there was likely masked due to damage, improper care, or heavy products.

Try to remember this may not happen to everyone and that’s alright! Your curls are still beautiful and unique, just like you.

You should also keep in mind that if your curls have significant damage as a result of heat, colour or chemicals, our products won’t repair that damage overnight. But with continued use and time, you could see a vast improvement!

The key is to commit to embracing your curls by treating them right and doing what it takes to take care of them.

7. Experiment: Find your routine

Have FUN with your hair!! Use your intuition and previous experience to guide you, keeping in mind that everyone’s curls are unique and no one knows your curls better than you. What works for one hair type may not work for another. So while watching other curly girls is a good start, it’s important to experiment with different techniques to find out what works for you! Remember: the healthy hair journey is a marathon, not a race.



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25 comments

I never write reviews. I brought the set of minis on a whim and after using it just once i am AMAZED. Usually you get a new product, it doesnt work and thats another £20 down the drain. I have followed the refresh tips and got 4 days out of it before i will wash it and start from scratch again. I had given up hope with my curls. I had found “wow for curly hair” which i thought was great but the curls would drop out through the day but not with LUS, its truly amazing. I was not happy about the extra customs charges as i am in the UK and hadnt read the shipping policy but after this one attempt and seeing the results i have already ordered another 3 full size bottles so i am stocked up. You dont have to use alot of product either (unheard of) which is amazing as will last me a long time. Definately worth every penny and extra custom charge :)

Natalie Ilo

After having children and the menopause, my hair had gone from quite tight curls to a mixture of waves, curls and straight. I’ve just purchased the “all in one”. Received it just over a week ago, a small amount of experimentation, the difference is UNBELIVEABLE. Thank you. I’ll be buying again. X

Maureen Pollitt

Hi, I recently read the reviews on products. I came accross this one, ( Amelia on Sep 12, 2019 ) she mentioned, she loved the product, but not so much the price, and because it’s small bottle for $18.
As a stylist myself, I often hear this from clients. One thing everyone needs to keep in mind. Your hair is an investment. What I mean by this, is that the majority of women love their hair and want it to look amazingly beautiful!! Am I right?? Well that being said, my answer- You get what you pay for!! Using cheep products will only 1) build up on each and every one if your hair strands, leaving your hair, flat, dull and unhealthy!!!
The reason I say this- not only is this my opinion, it’s also a proven fact. Cheep store products have aproximity 10yr shelf life, the manufacture must put in lots and lots of preservatives (inexpensive, filler, ingreadents) in-order to give such a long shelf life.
2) Professional products “like L-U-S” are priced high because, they are very concentrated with healthier, high quality ingredients. This creates a much shorter shelf life, most only have a 2yr shelf life. But because of the concentrated blend of top quality ingredients they have a higher cost. They are worth this higher price, also because they are more concentrated you only need to use "sometimes"less then half of what you would normally use. Keep in mind using too much, only gets washed down the drain (wasting it) You hair uses only what it needs.
Another thing to keep in mind, normally you should only wash your hair every other or every 3 days. Washing every day strips the hair/scalp of it’s natural oils, causing either overly oily hair, or very dry hair. Specially for curly hair, it lacks moisture “hence: why it looks frizzy)”
It will make a “HUGE” difference in your hair.
Although…..
Until you try this, you just won’t know what a huge difference it will make!!
So take a chance, try washing every other or every 3 days.
Do this for a week. Trust me, more than likely you will never go back to washing your hair everyday!! It creates healthier hair, hair also grows faster with less breakage, less frizz and dullness.
P.S. you can wet and use conditioner everyday, just don’t use shampoo each day!!

Disclaimer:
For my above comment. I’m not speeking for “L-U-S” products & the products shelf life. I don’t personally know how long their shelf life is. In my profession I personally know that the majority of professional product lines ie:REDKEN, BIG SEXY HAIR. Only have 2-3yr shelf life. Meaning after that products sorta break down like food spoiling. Plus there is more of a concentration of high quality ingredients.

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Gayle S.

Gayle A Schneider

How do you fine out what grade of hair that you have? Thank you.

Charlene Thornton

I started using LUS after making the decision to embrace my natural texture which has gotten curlier as I’ve aged. I also got a shag haircut which has helped awaken the curl. I started using LUS in October 2019 and on Christmas Day, my mom asked if I had gotten a perm! If that doesn’t tell you how much this system has worked for me, I don’t know what would convince you!

Michelle

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